Honest porn review of dating for sex site Gay Friend Finder

Gay Friend Finder has been online and operating since 2009, and in that short time has built up a pretty large community. There were +192,000 members registered and active at the time of my visit. When I created an account and logged in I could see that it wasn’t all that active a community, though. In the chat there were just a few other guys connected. The blogs seemed to be relatively active, but for the number of users I would expect more posts, more new blogs, each day.

The main purpose of Gay Friend Finder is to introduce you to other men though. The people lounging in the chat are therefore not an entirely fair way to gauge the site’s size or activity. You could actually never go into those chat rooms and still meet dozens or even hundreds of men and lead various types of relationships with them online. That’s because there are a lot of ways to interact. You can send email messages within the site, for one. You can also upload introduction videos using your webcam so others can see you and meet you without you having to actually be there in the moment. This is a cool way to find others as well. You watch their videos and if they seem like your type of guy it is easy to shoot them a message, or just send them a wink.

These tools, as well as instant messaging, are very powerful. But first you have to find the guys.

Here is where Gay Friend Finder could have done a touch better. Right now you just browse for men with various filters — location, distance from location, age groups, etc. There aren’t any matching formulas or the like, so they don’t suggest guys that might be good for you. It’s up to you to interact and find them, and make contact. Once you do find them the site provides everything you need to get a relationship up and going, whether its to be an online flirting relationship or something more serious offline.

When you sign up you will have to get your profile approved before you can take part in a lot of the site’s features. This is actually a very good thing rather than a hindrance. It cuts down on the fake profiles and spammers which plague every online dating site I’ve ever been on. Some of these low lifers still get through, but not many. Overall, the community stood out for its authentic memberships.

Gay Friend Finder is an online dating site best for gay men that just want a community to hang and flirt with. You won’t get matched with other men, you have to do the matching yourself, but the site has a lot of tools and a lot of members for you to make that happen. It’s a more laid back community rather than match making service, and a pretty good one.